Leaving Boyfriends/Girlfriends behind...

Is there anyone else who is leaving behind a boyfriend or a girlfriend? It's really making me think twice about going. Just wondered if there's anyone else out there feeling the same.

Any replies would be really appreciated.
Thanks.
Rach x

 

I'd be leaving my boyfriend again. Lat time i went it was really hard so im dreading leavin him again this summer.

 

I'm leaving my boyfriend for a whole year, and i am super nervous about it! He works lots so he will be really busy but the good thing about his work is he gets a week off every 3-5 weeks and he will visit me for all his breaks. For awhile i was thinking that I didnt want to leave him but the oppurtunity to go work in Disney World is amazing!

 

I would say don't let a boy keep you from your dream. Ask yourself if things don't work out with this boy how much will you regret not coming to Disney? If you're really meant to be with this boy then you'll probably be able to make it through this and you'll probably come out more in love and you'll have had the experience of your life. Good luck and I hope everything works out.

 

please do not let the fact that you have a b/f stop you from coming to florida. Who knows,in 6 months time or a year you and him may not even be together anymore and then you will kick yourself that you wasted this amazing oppertunity. If you and him are really meant to be together then this time apart will not harm your relationship. Good luck

 

DO NOT GIVE UP DISNEY for a guy or girl. I did it once, almost did it a second time, and it ended up not working out, so I'm glad I stuck with my dream.

You know what? It's a great test to your relationship! If it was really meant to be, it'll be there when you get back!

 

Thank you guys. I know I should really go and he's fully behind me all the way. I guess I'm just scared about missing him. Jillian you've got it so lucky!!!!!! That's really good he'll be able to come see you loads.

Rach x

 

Yeah I'm leaving my gf behind but we both reckon we have a strong enough relationship to survive a year apart... And hey... Survive that and you'll survive anything!!! ;D

 

It's all about trust.

If you survive a year "without" your boyfriend it'd make the relationship stronger and different ehehehe.

Plus, its a unique experiencie! I think it is stupid not to go because of a gf/bf.

U know I love u hahahaha ;D

 

Believe me, speaking as someone that knows, Dont waste an oppertunity like Disney! If you are meant to be with someone then u will get through it. I went away to Disney for 3 months leaving my boyfriend and we have now been together over a year.
You know that if you dont go then you will regret it! If I get to go to Disney again this summer, I will ve leaving my boyfriend again, but we both know that we can get through it like last time as we are even stronger now!

 

Coming from an on/off relationship, currently off, I know for me, the fact that I'm going away has put a major damper on our relationship, but none the less, you can't let that get in the way of what your goals are. Whether your in the same city or not, anything can happen and distance shouldn't be the decision maker of how your relationship works out. If it's meant to be, you will be able to work through it and make things work! Yes you will miss them like crazy, but this is also a once in a lifetime opportunity and anyone who really loves and cares for you would not make you miss out on that!

 

Dont Bring a relation to Commons!! buuuuu!!! it wont last! trust me! better be honest, and make a "break" before you come! its like going to a birthday party, and dont eat a piece of cake! LOL just kidding... ajaaa

 

depends if u like birthday cake or not really, i know loadsa people that have been away for long periods and left bf's and gf's behind and have come back n been stronger so it just depends on the person you are and also what ur wanting from ur relationship.

 

i'm really worried about leaving my boyfriend aswell. its only for the summer, but the longest we have ever been apart in the last year and a half (ish!!) is a week, and i havent been a day without him in .... i cant even remember how long!!

with it only being the summer, it probably wont split us up, but im really dreading how hard its going to be. im just hoping that il be so busy having so much fun that i dont have time to think about it, and i kind of just get used to him not being there! i dont think i will ever get used to sleeping on my own again though :

 

hello...i am in the same position, it really sucks and im really am worried about not seeing him for a whole year as we barley spend a day apart.
i am leaving dec 4th, what about everyone else?

 

I'm leaving on 28th August. At least there's a few of us in the same position. I know i'm gonna miss him like crazy for a whole year.

 

I'm currently single but I've recently met a girl who could potentially become my girlfriend (I hope!) she knows I'm going away but I'm not sure if it will make any difference to my chances

 

I just meet someone and we've been together now a month. He's known that i would be leaving. So we decided from the beging that we would seperate when i left. But it still really sucks. I'm going to miss him alot. But we plan to see what happens in a year. If things work out then we might get back together but who knows right. I'm going to go and have to time of my life, and see what happens when i get home. I guess everyone has to do what they think is best. And have no regrets from it.

 

the guy I was seeing screwed things over royally for us.

He says it's my fault but when he's going on about how we'll totally be together when I get back, and that we should just have a casual relationship until I leave, and not get TOO attached, and then he goes and pulls the L-Bomb (love) I was totally over-whelmed I freaked out, and walked out on him.

Since then, we haven't talked!
Sucks, because I really wanted him to come visit me etc but yeah, I couldn't handle the L -Word befor I left, when he was worried "I was getting too attached"

Ok, that was my rant for the day!

 

YEAh for being single again..Disney here i come!